Wife approval factor: any work around?

[afaa]

I am starting the PE program but wife doesnt approve. Current erect size L:5 1/2", G: 5". She thinks its good enough for her, I think not.

Now I have to do the PE ecercise when she's not around which is hard because I seldom get time when she's not around.

Any married guys out there with same problem?

[Big Al]

What are you going to do when you start growing? Your wife will be bound to notice.

[afaa]

I just hope that she'll like it and want me to grow some more :)

[lewyatt]

Afaa,

I know what you mean. Erect I am 6" by 4.75" and my wife thinks it is enough. However, I know better.

Check out www.penissizedebate.com and go to page 40. this will show the sizes that will really make the wife go crazy. Therefore my goal is 8" by 6.5" (funny that this is the same size as my shaving can...I have a true visual!).

I have done PE sporadically for the last couple of years...simply for this reason. However, I am fully taking the plunge now. I do my exercises in the shower in the morning (you might have to get up a little earlier than she does). She did question me about it and I told her "that there were exercises to help keep the prostate healthy. And Honey, there are some benefits in size that you will really enjoy!". I didn't have any more problems. I even tell her that I need to go shower and exercise.

It sure was a load off of my mind. I don't have to flinch if she walks into the bathroom.

Let me know how it goes. BTW, I have added you to my buddy list so that we can keep each other up to date.

P.S. I have just started taking PSP and I look forward to seeing the gains.

Take care!

[guyee]

I looked over that chart, and after having read a lot of sites about penis-size and vagina size and all that, i've decided that there really is no ideal penis size, or range of penis size.

As long as you're around average, and not freakishly small, you'll be able to satisfy most women. One of the problems with having a large penis is that you will be making contact with your woman's cervix every time you thrust, which is painful for her, and can lead to infection.

I personally woulndt mind 8 X 6.5, but I'd want to make sure that my wife/girlfriend can handle it. The average size for most white women is around 9 inches and 8 inches in girth. But again, statistics lie, and you'd have to basically make sure that your wife/girlfriend won't be hurt by a penis that big.

[afaa]

My wife happens to be a small frame asian woman. Wonder what the statistics are on that.

[bignuts]

I know I will have the same problem as you I know I will experience the same trouble, she almost told me the same thing, because I am about the same size as you. She does not seem to be interested in sex period. Maybe after my new size she will want me more then twice or three times a year. So sure a lot of married guys have the same trouble with their wives. I hope there was some kind of pill to get her interested in sex more often. Bignuts :cool: I am starting the PE program but wife doesnt approve. Current erect size L:5 1/2", G: 5". She thinks its good enough for her, I think not.

Now I have to do the PE ecercise when she's not around which is hard because I seldom get time when she's not around.

Any married guys out there with same problem?

[anth1225]

I am starting the PE program but wife doesnt approve. Current erect size L:5 1/2", G: 5". She thinks its good enough for her, I think not.

Now I have to do the PE ecercise when she's not around which is hard because I seldom get time when she's not around.

Any married guys out there with same problem?

Yeah I was about the same measurement as you when I started and I knew my wife would say the same thing yours did.

I just kept it to myself and as I grew it was fun cause she knew I was bigger but didn't know why, nor did she asked, but the look on her face was like, "What's up with this?"

Hey a guys got to have some secrets you know?

She loves it and plays with me with passion. What she doesn't know hasn't hurt a bit.

Sex has always been good but I think the biggest improvement is that the exercises make me stronger and help me last longer.

Maybe being a bit larger (just 1 and 3/8 gradual over time) has helped because I've noticed that she climaxes earlier and very strongly on a consistent basis more than before.

If you just don't discuss it she'll probably forget that you brought it up which may make it easier for you to start your exercises.

BTW I don't think it's a desparation thing either (ideal penis chart notwithstanding) obviously you got the goods and she enjoys it.

If your going to do it you've got to be doing it for yourself because that's what you want.

I think alot of it aesthetics which doesn't hurt at all.
take care,
anth

[anth1225]

I know I will have the same problem as you I know I will experience the same trouble, she almost told me the same thing, because I am about the same size as you. She does not seem to be interested in sex period. Maybe after my new size she will want me more then twice or three times a year. So sure a lot of married guys have the same trouble with their wives. I hope there was some kind of pill to get her interested in sex more often. Bignuts :cool:

Go to the health food store and there are herbal treatments like vitamins for men and women alike.
I've taken them and they truly work.
take it easy,
anth

[bignuts]

Do they sell those vitamins here in Canada? Read your reply and wondered what kind worked for you. Do you remember what vitamins you took that got you on track again and maybe your wife. Thanks Bignuts.Go to the health food store and there are herbal treatments like vitamins for men and women alike.
I've taken them and they truly work.
take it easy,
anth

[anth1225]

I've tried cobra but it's ok. I wouldn't recommend it but it does work a little bit.

I've tried Yohimbe 2000 and that works real good for me. If you got high blood pressure stay off the yohimbe though.

Rhino is also supposed to be good.

Horny Goats weed is also supposed to be good.

I've found the PSP pills to be a good balance but it doesn't work like the Yohimbe product.
But I feel stronger w/ the PSP's cause when I don't take them I notice a drop off within a few days.

Also regular multi-vitamins taken on a regular basis puts real good wood in the pencil.
Just look up natural health foods, or natural foods for grocery stores where produce is sold without any pesticide used to grow the crops.
There you will find lots of help with people willing to help you out in a non judgemental fashion, believe me they've heard it all.

Hope that helps,
anth