Length fine, but not thick enough.

[jamesy]

Hey all,

I have felt really down recently after my partner said her ex-partners penis was much thicker than mine and that it would probably burst through my boxers. I was shocked and really embarrassed.

I want to know if there is a way to increase the girth of my penis. I have been trying Man Hood Max pills for the past few months, but to be honest I have not noticed a difference and I dont think my girlfriend has either.

I never thought of it as an issue before but now thats it been mentioned I feel so little.

Any advice would be appreciated.

Thanks

[Dazzlingdaz3]

HI mate,
Welcome to the forum :)

Sorry to hear that your current partner doesnt think enough of you to save you the grief of being compared to her ex lovers penis size. I cant think of a meaner way for a bitch to get the upper hand on a guy. Perhaps you can counter her and tell her that her ex must have done some damage with that thick tool, because she is not exactly the tightest girl that you have been with ;)

Seriously, If ya want to do something about, click on the Penis Health tab at top this forum and get started on the basic and FREE exercises and routines :)

Cheers
Dazz

[Sed26]

Don't take this the wrong way but she really pulled a bitch move to compare you to her ex-lovers. I hope you reach your goals and when you do slap her ass with your monster.

[NyahKon]

How long have you been with her? I wouldn't take that from anyone (unless I asked (which I never would), in which case she'd have a right to be honest). What are your measurements, anyway?

What a bitch.

[jamesy]

i know, it was a very low thing to say. I have even been put off sex now.
I have not measured mine properly, i tried to post a pic on the 'rate my penis' page but it would not work.

She never meant her comments in a bad way and she dosnt realise that she has upset me, but I cant help feeling so down about it.

[hunghigh]

Have you ever told her that it bothered you that this was said. Just a little advise, dont be irate with her about the comparison. If yu please her whats the big deal. I know there are some partners of my wifes from past that were larger than myself. I dont even have to ask nor do I really think about it. The one thing that I have learned in relationships is that too many men jump in the sack and just want to do it. Well being smaller than the average male I had to do some research on what a woman wants. She wants to feel special, held and worked up before you do the deed. My advise for you is stand out from the rest. foreplay and lots of it. While your on the program dont try and have sex as much as you did in the past. In fact just make out in a playful manner and go into it without thinking your gonna get some. Dont do it. If you stick with the program for a couple of months and do it "by the book" you will start to gain some much needed confidence. Make her come oral and later get yourself off. That way she wont know that you are gaining. I saw somebody ask your measurements. What are they?

[jade_permenda]

Hi Jamesy,

I can't believe that she would say something so nasty!:eek: - but don't take it to heart- it really is true that what you do with it is so much more important than the size!:sm16

I can understand that this would make you feel the need to do something about her remarks, but do remember that PE is a long slow process, and if you are going to get what you want out of it you need to stay motivated and dedicated.

The reason I mention it is that you should be sure that you want to get into this for yourself, not to measure up to some guy you've only heard about:o

My word of caution dispensed with, I'd like to wish you the best of luck if you decide to go ahead with the PE, make sure that you measure correctly, and post your stats in your signature so everyone can give you some encouragement when you start to see results!:sm16

[jamesy]

Hi!

I have been doing some of he exercises from the site and I must say, an improvement has been made. My penis seems to be a little bit thicker and my erections are more solid.

I want to continue this and hopefully get a decent size but My balls sometimes let me down too. They can sometimes be very small and tight, anyone know why????

Can anyone recommend pills or patches and some exercises to go with it?

Anyhelp would be much apreiciated - I am on a mission!

Oh and I had to split up with my girlfriend, what she said put a whole in my heart and it was the best relationship (16 months) i ever had.

Now i want to be bigger!

Thanks :D

[turtle]

.She never meant her comments in a bad way and she dosnt realise that she has upset me, but I cant help feeling so down about it.

I am glad to hear that you split with this bitch. If you believe the above quote, then you live in Never Never Land. She meant every word, and she was trying to hurt you. Believe me that was just the beginning, she would have found new subjects to try and embarass you. Forget about her, and concentrate on your PE and improving your confidence and yourself. Good luck with your PE adventure.
turtle

[Dmitriy]

What an incredible bitch! If she told me something to that extent, of bursting through my boxers, it would be over. Not so much about the "thicker" part, but that's a direct blow.

You did the right thing about dropping her.

Be confident and always dress to impress!

[Quirky One-Eye]

Jamesy, I'm sorry that you had to go through something of that nature. I've been under that particular gun myself, although my incidents weren't of quite as shocking a nature as your own, or as harsh.

I'll let you in on a little secret about women, despite that it will come across harshly for some of the femmes in this forum.

You say that she didn't mean this in a bad way, and never meant to hurt you, but stop and honestly think about not only what she said, but the manner in which it was said. It's one thing to discuss past lovers and for penile dimensions to come out in the chat; often, as has been stated here, the fact that some of them have been bigger will come out.

That, in and of itself, should never be a big deal with guys like us, because that's just the way Life works, with some guys being born with bigger dicks than others; to drive oneself mad over it is just as ludicrous as to worry because someone else is, say, smarter or taller than you are.

However, to make that radical a comparison, suggesting that "his would burst through your boxers", that's not only thoughtless, but cruel.

Consider a comparison: Women will preach endlessly that "what's inside a person is more important than what's on the outside", and yet if you told this girl that your past girlfriends were significantly prettier than she, it would have thrown in a rift of enormous proportion. Your remark would have been labeled insensitive and cruel, no matter how often you may have said "But it doesnt' matter, it's YOU I care for, not your face!"

Sounds pretty empty spelled out that way, doesn't it?

The secret here: It's not that dick-size isn't important to women in general, it's that how you feel about your dick size is seldom important to women in general. So much so that the women who don't care at all will blatantly tell you about the dimensions of past lovers, even offering unsolicited information, while the women who do care about your feelings are left to avoid the topic altogether (generally, for the best; would they appreciate you sharing the finer points of your past lovers?), or are forced to lie, assuming it is of importance to them.

Now, don't take that the wrong way; there are differing factors involved, and as some women have stated, what you do with a penis is significantly more important than how big it is, within reason. Never, ever, EVER forget that! It's far, far more important to be a good lover than it is to be a swinging dick, and any woman who would argue that point is either what we call a Size Queen, which is to say that performance is meaningless compared to finding the biggest, or she's stupid enough to forget all the times she bitched because some hung lover was selfish in bed and had no staying power.

You may feel that this was the best relationship you ever had, but if she was so callous as to drop a bomb like that and then pretend she had no intention of hurting you, you're ignoring the dominance factor that figures into virtually any relationship. Whether we ever really want to admit it or not, someone in every relationship maintains a greater degree of power or control.

In the long run you're far, far better off without such a partner.

In the meantime, take this opportunity to learn about your dick and yourself, gain some growth and knowledge, and welcome to the club!

[erissoup]

Sorry to hear about this man. I would drop a bitch like that in a heartbeat. If my current GF ( who I intend to marry) said something like that I dont know if I would break it off because I am a sucure guy, but I dont know alot would depend on how she said that. I might reply with " well go get him" "its gonna take more than that to bruise my confidence baby" or something like that. But I am happy overall with my dickbeing average or high end. so what are your stats anyway? They cant be much worse than mine.

[-Gun Show-]

Hey jamesy. i am sorry to hear that your woman treats you like that. The only reason mine told me about her ex's larger size was to compliment me on how much better of a lover I am than he ever was. But still, even though it was meant to make me feel better, it still sucks to hear shit like that. No dude wants to hear that his girl has had bigger. Kind of puts a bad mental image in your head.
No dude should have to go through that, especially if the bitch did it just to pick on you. I would advise you to kick her to the curb and find a real woman that will care about you regardless. You shouldn't have to make your dick bigger just to keep a girl. I am sure that pretty much every one here is doing it for the sole purpose of bettering themselves. PE, from what I have learned so far, is primarily for the dude that is doing it....not for his girl or for anyone else.
Your sexual partners will enjoy your larger penis, but the only one that benefits is you. I hope that you get the gains you want...but I don't feel that you should share them with a woman the doesn't appreciate you for you.