22 yrs old and ONLY ONE TIME?

[kravorzlair]

Hi guys, I've got a big, phat problem here and I desperately need your help.

I'm 22 years old and my sexual performance is worse than a 50 years old man.I'm not smoking I'm not taking drugs/alcohol, I exercise (body building) and I eat junk food one time every two weeks.
I ve heard lots and lots of true stories (and myths) about guys who can get erected after every ejaculation and can have sex up to 8 (and more) times in a god dammit Night!!!
Every time after my first ejaculation Ifeel like a zombie, totally sleepy and I cant get another erection no matter how hard me or my partner try.
I can say that my girlfriend isn't so attractive to me (psychological reasons maybe ???)
What can I do to get erected after every ejaculation?

[NyahKon]

Well, it usually takes a bit of downtime between sessions no matter who you are. Even the guys who can go multiple times in a night have to wait a bit before starting up again.
However, I don't think your situation is that uncommon... and short of taking some sort of pill (which I don't recommend), I think you should just focus on lasting longer the first time around... so that you don't really need to start over again after ejaculating.

...BUT, if you're talking about wanting to have sex again an HOUR or two after your first round of things and can't get it up then... well... that's a different story. Not sure what to suggest if that's the case.

[kravorzlair]

I told you Ifeel very exhausted almost sleepy fter the first time.
Even after an hour Ican't get an erection.

[TheLegend]

I used to have the same problem, but since i've started taking viagra, it doesn't require any thought at all! Talk to your doctor about getting Viagra or Cialais. You can be hard on command, and stay hard even after cuming, to continuously have sex without any downtime. I take the 100mg tablets.

Then I found the PE stuff, so i've been trying that and it's helping, but a little injury set back I suppose.

Best of luck!

[kravorzlair]

Take viagra??? :sm33 :sm35 I thought that viagra is proper only for men who have no erections at all. After all Ithink I'll consult an andrologist.

[Dazzlingdaz3]

Take viagra??? :sm33 :sm35 I thought that viagra is proper only for men who have no erections at all. After all Ithink I'll consult an andrologist.

At 22 years of age, i dont think that viagra should be considered until you have perused all your options. Consulting with an medical professional is your best course of action to see what underlying issues may be contributing to your situation .

Cheers
Dazz

[Sed26]

The answer to your problems are just here, on this forum. Research kegals. It takes me about 5-10 mins. before I can get an erection after ejaculation but everyone is different.

[kravorzlair]

Kegels Hmmm. Not a bad idea. I have seen results when Iwas doing kegels a few months ago

[tomybooy]

you know what? you can be graifull
at least u can do it one time
wanna know how long it takes me for the first round?
about 2 minuts.
so i will swich places with you if i could make it for a long time, even if its the only time!

[slim161]

The guys that are telling you they get off 8 times in a night are full of it (get it? get it?) No really, that's ridiculous unless they are mainlining some testosterone into their system. However, for stamina you CAN get Stamina Rx which DOES work because I have personally tried it.

[kravorzlair]

I know that they take nothing. No pills no testosterone enhancement supplements NOTHING. I think they are simply gifted to stay erected so many times.
Talking about supplements I'm talking a tribulous formula but it does nothing. DAMN.

Last night I totally failed at bed. I lasted only two damned minutes and after that.........DEADLY SILENCE

[kravorzlair]

you know what? you can be graifull
at least u can do it one time
wanna know how long it takes me for the first round?
about 2 minuts.
so i will swich places with you if i could make it for a long time, even if its the only time!

Try to masturbate an hour or two before having sex. You will not be so sensitive and it will take you longer to ejaculate. This is a good solution for me because if I not masturbate before sex I last as long as you.

[slim161]

Well, 8 times is damn near humanly impossible I'd say. Check out some of the stamina products on my site. I have PERSONALLY tried them and they work great.

[wohoo19m]

The key to getting great stamina in bed: PRACTICE!

I've been doing these "time trial" trainings from time to time where you set an amount of time ( say an hour ) where you don't do anything but think of sexy thoughts and play with yourself. Then you get off, and just continue stroking. Continue until the time is up. Then you calculate how many times you came, and how much time it took you to get your erection back.

The goal is to shorten the amount of refraction time ( time between erections ) and increase the times you ejaculate.

I haven't had the chance to test it really , since my girlfriend is a "once is enough" type of chick. Which I guess is good for me :sm29. I'm mainly into practicing non-ejaculatory orgasms at the moment. Time trials are good for these as well.

[kravorzlair]

Non ejaculatory orgasms need a very strong pc muscle. I think I could achive them after 3 weeks of hard kegel training

[wohoo19m]

Non ejaculatory orgasms need a very strong pc muscle. I think I could achive them after 3 weeks of hard kegel training

3 weeks?...Add a couple of months to that my friend. non-ejaculatory orgasms don't just happen from having a strong PC. Plus, 3 weeks is just not long enough to develop a strong PC in my opinion ( and experience ).

[kravorzlair]

No a couple of months ago I was able to do that (It was very hard and sometimes I was end up ejaculating) but I was working out my pc muscle really hard. I was performing about 1500+ pc flexes every day. (I was in the army and it was the only thing I could do to kill my boredom :sm25 )!!!!!!!

[aimingforthetop]

dude if you are doing bodybuilding on a regular basis its no wonder at all, i have done some martial arts on a high level and after a hard day i could do MAX 1 or sometimes none, try to hold off from training a couple of days, and have a weekend having out with your girl and see what happens. i have had sex like 6 times in 1 day, was'nt that good in the end really, but she enjoyed it, and i can say from my self, that its not possible to get an erection right after sex. the body isn't tuned for that, unless you use medical drugs.

[kravorzlair]

I am exercising with free weights but I don't think that this is the reason for not having erection after the first time.
I think it is 100% psychological because most of times when I ejaculate I tottaly lose the desire to have sex again with her. I think I made a mistake for making a relationship with her because I don't like her body and I don't think she is sexy. I'm such an asshole

[aimingforthetop]

well only you who can tell that, but ofc if you aren't turned on by her, and you don't love her why are you together with her then?

[kravorzlair]

I love her very very much but I don't find her so attractive that she can easily turn me on and since I have a lot of difficulties in approaching new women I don't want to be left without girlfriend

[gotpepsi]

your negative messages concerned me.

First of all.. Its impossible for you to love someone that you find unattractive and a turned off. Once a man got love for a woman, that woman will be guaranteed a lovely and a turned on for him. So, apparently, you dont love her. I know a lot about love, and i went thur it... I know what its all about. Cut her off if she cant please you, because you live once and im sure that you dont have to waste your life.

Be positive and make a right decision. take care

gotpepsi

[kravorzlair]

Yeah I know it's a strange situation. I know that sometimes I'm suffering sexually but when we decide to not see each other for a long time (lets call it a Broke up), she called me after a couple of hours crying and screaming that she don't have friends, nobody loves her even her parents and that I am the only human that she loves. SHIT !!! I really felt like shit after hearing that and I'm staying with her until now. It is one of those situations that you feel like a f**king prisoner wandering what to do. Stay with her even if you want more adventures with other chicks or break up with her and explore the threatening, frightening and bloodly savagetastic cruel world of women????

[ducth]

dude... don't waste your time. If you are unhappy... change it. Why do something or stick with somebody if ultimately it makes you unhappy? Life is short bro. You don't have to cut your girl off completely. Just let her know that you don't want to be in a relationship with her anymore... that doesn't mean that she can't get your dick when she wants it. Man, you need to fuck around with some girls that really get you excited, then i'm sure you won't have the same problem. If you are unattracted to the only one you get some ass from, then why would you want to get it up again in the first place? You probly have to work extra hard just to get off, which would explain why you could be so tired after nutting.

[foomaaa]

haha, you don't seem to be getting much sympathy here. you're a body builder, and you put a lot of effort into your body. I'm guessing that your girlfriend doesn't, right? i sorta was in the same situation with my ex. we were going out for like a year and a half, and i know i should have broken up with her after 2 months. i'd meet a lot of girls that were way more attractive than my ex, and it was annoying. it's hard to break up with her cause you two are best friends, and as you said, you don't have that many other friends. i was the exact same way. we eventually did break up, and she pretty much didn't have any friends, and she developed an eating disorder. i guess that's to say it was hard on her. i was relieved at the start, but she started dating my best friend like a week later, so i took my turn to be bummed out. i don't talk to either of them anymore.
the moral of my story? i didn't have many friends at that point cause i was always with her. so you learn to make friends. you'll feel lonely, you'll crave a girlfriend (my guess is you'll want the company more than the sex) and you'll feel like shit. but it's worth it. we were so close i spent a month just trying to slowly cut her off before i broke up with her. probably not the right way to go, but it's worth it. i'm saying this because you said you're not attracted to her. you're young, and you should not be dating someone you're not attracted to. you have trouble approaching woman, but that's not a big deal. you'll eventually develop your social skills. if this girl liked you so long, then another hotter girl will likely feel the same way.
try to start going out more with your guy friends to bars or something. live!!