Girth - how much is too much?

[mchlwise]

Do you guys with over 5" girth ever get a lot of oral?

Vaginally speaking, you want as much girth as possible (to a certain extent, of course), but I love oral too. It seems to me, comparing things around the house that are about 5" girth, that more than that would be pretty hard to get a mouth around, and I'm not even sure that 5" would be very comfortable in a mouth for very long.

I'm about 5" girth right now, and single so don't have anybody to ask, but I'm really starting to think I don't want much more girth at this point.

What experience do you guys have, and what do most of you think is a good girth, balancing vaginally and orally so she's satisfied with one, but you're not too big for her to give you the other?

I understand this is going to vary from chick to chick, but right now I'm thinking I'll lay off girth until I get married and see how big her mouth is and if she would want any more. I could always start up again later!

[ebon00]

This is a hard question. I clock in at 5.6" erect girth (midshaft) and I've had no problems in the oral depertement. However, there are times when women have been really excited that my girth has felt a little on the low side for penetration. Since dilation and lubrication matters so much in penetration (and they can vary quite a lot) there is really no simple guideline as to what is a good girth to please.

Once you get up in girth oral would probably be a problem though. Most likely a woman would not be able to take you as deep if you had greater girth so there's a tradeoff there. I think anything over 6.5" would be a little hard to swallow (pun intended) for most women. Can't say I have the experience to back it up though...

[ebon00]

I got to thinking about this again today because I ran into an old friend/sex partner. She was the only one who ever deep-throated me and I realised that the better part of stimulation from oral sex comes right around the "ridge" of the head of the penis which is the most sensitive. So, as long as your partner can get that far down you'll still be getting good oral. Being deep-throated was visually very appealing but the real sensation was when she went back up to the top again. Just a thought.

[dancer]

http://www.penissizedebate.com/page40_ideal-penis-size.htm

[mchlwise]

Dancer, I've seen that site before and I'm not sure quite how much of it to believe. The chart on that page shows "ideal" girth starting around 7", but that doesn't really answer my question. Vaginally, that might be "ideal", though it seems pretty big.

Not having a vagina myself I can't really say, but I do have a mouth, and there is no way in hell something 7" in girth is going in it.

Which is really my question: balancing vaginal AND oral, what's a good girth? If it's really possible through hard work and consistency to be about as big as you wanna be, then I wanna be big enough to feel good vaginaly, but I don't wanna go too big to fit in her mouth.

[pearce6]

Girth is mentioned in this article:

http://www.independent-penis-reviews.com/size.html

Personally i think length matters more to men and girth more to women.

[dancer]

True, i agree mchlwise that orally 6,5 inches or more will be dificult for her(6,12 is where that chart starts). I'm 5.0" and i know that 1,5+ inch more won't fit a gils mouth easy. so i think that around 5,5inch is a good girth for ur girls vaginal and oral :o pleasure, but i think she will have more pleasure vaginal with that 6 inch0r when she is excited.:cool: