Religion

[YAMAHA1]

HONEST ANSWER PEOPLE--


Are there any members here that are either christian/catholic, who currently are pe'ing?

Do you feel that pe'ing is a sin?

Do you feel justified in saying that the reason for doing it is for sexual gratification between you & your wife?

Do you feel it is wrong to pe for any other reason besides intercorse between a marrie couple?


I know these are some deep/odd questions here guys, but these questions have been on my mind for awhile now, and i seem to be struggling with them. I just wonder if anyone else feels the way that i do.


I would appreciate anyones opinion on this

thanks

[wohoo19m]

You talk alot about pe-ing being about being able to satisfy your partner . I mean yeah that is true but even more than that the results that pe-ing give you will give you a tremendous boost in your self confidence . That's mostly why I'm doing it . Being able to satisfy my partner is just a really really nice bonus :D

[Daz MN Support]

wouldnt god want u to perform better to bring more children into the world?

:rolleyes:

[mchlwise]

I'm a member of a major Christian religion.

First of all, I think that the biggest problem a typical "religious" person would have with PE'ing would be the (in my opinion mistaken) belief that sex is only for procreation (having kids). I think that's a bunch of crap. I think God made sex enjoyable not just so we would have it to have kids, but so that it would be a big and important part of a loving relationship. SEX IS NOT A SIN - as long as it's in the bounds God has set (namely marriage).

Looking at it from that perspective, I think all the other questions are easy to answer:

NO, I don't think PE'ing is a sin. Trying to better satisfy your partner through your own "suffering" is a very unselfish, Christlike thing to do.

Sure, I'd feel totally justified in saying I'm doing it to satisfy my partner (based on the answer above).

I'm not sure that I understand the last question, but if I understand it properly to mean "is it o.k. to PE just so you can go around and say 'Look at my big dick!'" - then I would as a Christian say: "That doesn't sound very Christlike."

Hope that helps.

[Daz MN Support]

tks for that mchlwise

Hopefully it will help the post creator

a voice of reason :)

[maxpower454]

yea, i agree with all these guys in saying that PE-ing is not a sin but the degree of pleasure u get during PE and the occasional and accidental masturbation makes me think otherwise sometimes. luckily the urge to masturbate has died off long ago with me so that doesnt happen anymore.

[Wazzup]

Max, do you mean by that that masturbation's a sin for you?

Well if it is, then I'm going straight to hell!!

Seriously, I don't think PE's a sin, neither is masturbation. I mean, that whole "Sex is only for procreation" thing is long past. We're in the year 2003!! I mean Religion has always been synonym with the will of power and has long kept us in the dark about a lot of things.

I would say, if God exists, that he made us to enjoy life with all its side. And who doesn't like sex? I mean as long as your own freedom doesn't interfere with other people's freedom, you can do everything you want! So if I want to whack off and I like to whack off, why would I call it a sin?

For the "Do you feel justified in saying that the reason for doing it is for sexual gratification between you & your wife?" I would say YES of course! And not just your wife, but any girl (or man) you have sex with. I mean having sex with a person you are not married with is not a sin at all. I you love this person (and even if you don't) it is right to have sex.

For the last question I would say that any reason for PE is justified. Wanting a big penis to satisfy your GF -RIGHT, Wanting a big penis to feel more confident -RIGHT, Wanting a big penis to have something to show off -RIGHT (well maybe not that right, but not a sin!!!)

Sorry if I sound like a sinner to you, but I have my own personal vision of life and I have a deal with God. I try to do as much good as I can to the people I love, and he just leaves me alone.

Cheers

[dwduck]

I am not very religious, howoever I hold acceptance of all religious faiths. I think that PEing is neither a sin nor something to be afraid of doing. I think if you are comfortable with it then by all means.... go for it. It's not a sin to want a more meaningful and intimate connection/experience with your partner. That's just my take.

[Wazzup]

What Duck said made me think about what I said. I really didn't want to sound like I didn't respect what religious people think. I really do!

As Duck, I hold acceptance to all religious faiths, as long as they hold acceptance to others'.

[NELSON]

I think that the main question is whether you regard sex as a sin. I do not think sex is a priory a sin but how you go about it with respect towards yourself and others. I find nothing wrong with giving yourself and your partner pleasure. Furthermore I find nothing wrong with feeling better about yourself and your body. If taking care of your body is a sin then I don't know what to say. If you are doing it to brag about yourself in the mens locker room it's your arrogance that is sinfull. If it is to improve your life through more self confidence and, yes why not, better love life I find nothing wrong.

[maxpower454]

well, i went to catholic school for 12 years. what the cathol,ic church teaches is that sex is only for 1 reason, procreation. im not sure if i agree with that. i think sex is a wonderful thing, and the catholic church teaches it is too, however, i think that sex is enjoyable for a reason, to give you and your spouse pleasure. however, sex outside of marriage is not a good thing because it is not the way God intended it. i somewhat agree with this teaching of the church. lets face it, everyone has accidents. at the time, the 2 ppl may love each other very much so that would make sex ok. then again, if 2 ppl love each other enough to have sex and give themselves completely to the other, they should get married. sex outside of marriage only causes problems but i know everyone makes mistakes.
masturbation on the other hand, goes completely against everything God intended sex to be. it does not allow for you to give yourself completely to anyone else and it wastes Gods seed. all it does is give the person involved pleasure. sex was intended to be shared between 2 ppl that love each other with their whole heart and soul. masturbation destroys all of that. im not saying that anyone who masturbates is going to hell, because lets face it, almost everyone does it, including me, im just saying that it IS a sin, a grave one at that and the person should try very hard to stop and should be sorry for these actions b/c they offend God. i know my words will arouse conflict and i hope they do. im just sharing my opinion and what the catholic church teaches.