woman's point of view

[hardin]

okay guys you asked for my point of view about hardins choice to do these exercises. First, to be honest i thought he was nuts and it wouldnt work. I also thought maybe there was something wrong with me because before he started doing penis enlargement exercises i was happy with him the way he was. I mean that the other guys i had been with before i met him didnt take the time for my pleasure, but he does, therefore i was happy with him as he was. Now that he has been doing them for a while and his size has increased things are better yet. The length gains are nice but I personally am most happy with the girth gains, for me that is the best part. Also, another thing to keep in mind is to do the exercises within a time range that doesnt interfere with your sex life. When he started he was doing them at a time that didnt allow for us to have sex because of the need to recouperate from the exercises. Add that to feelings that maybe he wasnt happy with me and it didnt make me understand what he was trying to do so well. :D Now that we both understand what he is doing i am verrrrryyy happy.
And hey, if you have a specific question to ask go ahead and i will try to answer for you.

[Edward]

Excellent...:) And Thank you.

I would like to ask you a question:

Although you find girth to hold the upper hand :D (no pun intended), what would be the shortest penis length that you would find acceptable for your personal pleasure?...3"....5"...7"...or bigger?

[hardin]

6 inches or above is nice :D but to be honest, if you know how to use what you have then that is enough. I mean some guys are built well but they do not take the time to please a woman, just themselves. I would rather have a smaller penis on a man who takes the time to give me pleasure as well.

[mellow-yellow]

in comparison....what would you say gives the most pleasure girth / length in ratio.

say like 50 /50 or 40 / 60 etc....

i have 7 1/4 length...but girth is bout 5.....how much for u would be too wide???.....

cheers hardin's missus :p :D :eek: ;)

[hardin]

I think probably 40/60. I also think 5 and a half in girth would be just about nice for me. I know that when hardin started this program that I told him not to get it to much bigger because i wouldnt want it. What is nice is that we discuss where he is at and how much more either of us want. For example he wants more length and i want more girth but not to much more.

[GanetUK]

Hi I have a quick question,

when some say the length of there penis on here they use BPEL(Bone Pressed Errect Length) and I'm just over 6" with that but if I lay a ruler on top i'm just over 5", that is what most people will see and I'm worried girls will think I am very short (I know I'm less than average as that is 6.5"), what makes this a bit worse is I'm 6" in girth so i think it looks a little strange at the moment and I don't want to be know as the short and stubby bloke. what my question is is that will girls think I have a 5" or 6" penis when they see it and is that really that short?

[hardin]

I would imagine that whatever they think it would be forgotten if your "performance" meets what they need. I think most women measure more by what it feels like than what it looks like. That is unless it is deformed or something but from what you said I dont think that is a problem. Also, because you are here on the forum I take it that you are also doing PE exercises so things should balance out for you. It also depends on the woman you are with, like men we are all different and have different reactions to things.

[IHitThatBox]

Originally posted by GanetUK
Hi I have a quick question,

when some say the length of there penis on here they use BPEL(Bone Pressed Errect Length) and I'm just over 6" with that but if I lay a ruler on top i'm just over 5", that is what most people will see and I'm worried girls will think I am very short (I know I'm less than average as that is 6.5"), what makes this a bit worse is I'm 6" in girth so i think it looks a little strange at the moment and I don't want to be know as the short and stubby bloke. what my question is is that will girls think I have a 5" or 6" penis when they see it and is that really that short?

I don't think they'll be debating with numbers, man. But here's the way I see it. Missionary style usually (not on all women, as all women are different) leaves the vagina at an almost slanted position from the side (meaning if you were looking at it from the side, it would look like this: ' \ '. Slanted up and away from you. So that will put you in position to maneuver that extra length you measure into the action. the top base of your penis will be pressed against the upper-outer portions of her woman things, and so that angle (and your girth) lets you stimulate her whole outer region... But I'm a guy, Hardin's woman would be the best to answer your question.

[Unregistered]

im kind curved to the left if i measured it with a ruler staright since i curved alot im 5.7 or 5.8 but if i cut a string and follow the curve and measured the string im 6.1 i dont know which is my real measurement but was wondering is 5.7 too small enough to turn off a women even thoe the guy is like very good looking not to brag but im very attactivee i get guy and girls to look at me so this problem to me is big cause im always having women that want to have sex with me but i lack confidence after seeing a freind of mines having sex we met 2 girls and we had sex in same room with them and he was huge he is 8.5 inches long and both girls where like dam made me fell less of a man then him even thoe im better looking they said :(

[hardin]

I hate to say it but if I had seen a 8.5 inch one I would have said damn too. But I have to tell you that hardin started out at like 5.8 inches and I was happy with what he had because he knew how to use it. As for the curve there are excersises to help that too. Hardin was curved to the left and he started some of the straightening exercises and now it's not so noticable. He is now at 7 inches and still going so I know that you can get there too.



The missus

[Joshua]

How do you do straightening exercises?

josh

[IHitThatBox]

Originally posted by Joshua
How do you do straightening exercises?

josh

I've found that simply Jelqing has reduced my already slight upward curve... But wherever you are a member (Like Penis-Health.com) has details...

[hardin]

The simplest way is to jelq inthe oppisite direction of the curve it may take awhile and it may not be perfectly straight, but if you stick with it it will become much less prominent.

[Johsua]

Oh right thanX...:)I've noticed a slight curve but not a big one...So i'll try jelquing the other way;)

josh

[IHitThatBox]

By that, I am pretty sure he means to more or less angle your O-grip. You don't want to Jelq downward without trapping it at the base!

[Cleveland]

I'd like to thank both Hardin and Mrs Hardin for doing this Q & A session. The guys on this forum are great with advice and opinions, but it's wonderful to have a female perspective. Thanks.

[IHitThatBox]

How rude of me. Thank you for bringing it to my attention, Cleveland.

Yes, I too should thank you Mr. and Mrs. Hardin (Or actually, Ms. Hardin I think...). Hardin's better half (no offense Hardin, just terminology ;) ) had helped us all out, even those who didn't participate in this discussion as well I'm sure. Simply reading it is helpful. But I hope this discussion isn't over yet.

On that note, what is the new average size for men these days? When was the last study done? Not just length, but girth.

What are you guys' routines, especially you Hardin. How long have you been doing it? What were your measurements when they started and what are they now?

I'd also like to know what kind of lube/lotion you guys use. I am currently using Suave Naturals with Vitamin E because it's what I got and I haven't had the time or energy to go get another kind. It's a pain to keep reapplying after Jelqing, doing a few exercises, then jelqing again. 10-20 Jelqs, a few reps of the Ferarri or advanced exercises, 10-20 Jelqs. Reapply. Stretch. Reapply. Repeat. I want to get something that's readily available at most places, but is good lube, won't discolor my skin (some havent worked good for me in hte past, and my skin turns a darker color), and that doesn't have to be reapplied a whole lot. Or use a whole lot so it gets messy. But I also don't want petroleum jelly or something that's really hard to get off your hands...

[hardin]

I posted my routine in the logbook I believe, I have added a thing or two since then though. As for lube, I like baby oil gel you only have to apply it once and a little bit go's a loooooong way, you can also get it in multi- vitamin formula wich I think helps alot.

[Unregistered]

Originally posted by IHitThatBox
By that, I am pretty sure he means to more or less angle your O-grip.

Is that true (as to the curved jelq)? No-one has ever mentioned that before, but I have come to the same conclusion. Could anyone please state this more precisely?

Much obliged.

[hardin]

I have never angled my grip or anything like that and I've straightened my curve alot. Just simply curve your jelq in the oppisite direction of the curve.
It just takes time, persistance pays off.