I think I injured myself

[dyablo]

Hey guys I am in need of desperate advice. On Thursday I masturbated, but I think I might have used excessive force or speed, because I even ejaculated without being completely hard.

The thing is that it has been to days and I haven’t been able to achieve ANY erection at all, not even a semi. I am really scared if anyone has any piece of advice or input about my problem I will be really thankful.

I must also mention that I haven’t done any form of PE for the last couple of months, so I don’t think it might be related to it. Also this month I have been masturbating almost every day and sometimes more than one time the same day. My penis has even been sore for some days before this incident.

[JeffreyStatic]

Give it some rest, young Skystroker. Try a week, if possible.

[dyablo]

Yes I will, and I would go as far as two or three weeks if possible.

So do you think there is no permanet damage in my penis?

I appreciate your input. If anyone else has an opinion please share it, as you can imagine this thing has gotten me very worried as I am just 21 years old.

[JeffreyStatic]

The penis is an incredible organ. Here's my 2 cent based on my own experience.

I too used to masturbate a lot, same frequency as you. Around 21, I noticed a definite physiological change from before. My cum shots did not have the same volume and force (used to fly across the room very easily earlier :P) given the same amount of stimulation as before. It was also harder to get turned on. It almost felt as if something was weighing my pecker down, preventing him from getting a full hard-on as instantly as he used to before. I really thought my pecker was permanently damaged then. What made matters worse was that I also happened to have my first sexual experience within this time frame too. It didn't go ideally, needless to say. But that's also because of first time anxiety and her being a pretty shitty lover, though having far more experience than me, lol. So, I was like wtf is going on and wanted to destroy my pecker. =] Though there were psychological issues here, the physical one was definitely a factor too.

Think of the penis as a gun with limited ammunition that needs to last a life time. This ammunition being directly proportional to your libido. No matter what people say, I do sincerely believe that excessive masturbation (eg. more than twice a day, everyday) can indeed be detrimental to your sexual performance and enjoyment, if gone unchecked. It basically numbs your penis, glans especially. It gets too used to it. So, if you wank too much, you're using up too much ammunition too fast. This change can be reversed by pacing yourself, eating well and practicing PE. Think of this as adding ammunition again.

As you grow older, you'll realize that men were not made to have multiple orgasms like women. When we're young, we have the following mentality: more cumshots = better lover. This is not at all the case. The secret is pacing and total control. I would much rather fuck all day and cum once than fuck three times, cumming after each session; as enjoyment after each session reduces, as does the volume and thickness of the cumshots. When I do this, I enjoy the sex more, and my partner has far more prolonged pleasure (better than frequent pit-stops). We are meant to cum less and that's that. Our virility lies in our ability to make women cum bucket loads and still being able to go on. That is, hitting the right spots and stamina. Anyway, that's a different discussion.

Basically, your junk needs to recharge. You need to respect that. I'm 24 now and definitely feel far better off than I was back at that odd low-ish libido time at 21. I know what my body comfortably handles and try to work within that. I think you should too.

Don't over do it, practice self-control and PE will only make things better.

Hope this helps.

[dyablo]

It sure does man, thanks for all the advices. I agree with you that my penis is desperate for some rest, so I will do so. Masturbation like anything else, in excessive quantities is bad.

I really appreciate your input and in case of any changes I will let you guys know.

[dyablo]

Any other opinion guys?

[Big Rob]

The problem is probably more phycological than anything else.

Take a week or off from masturbating and then give another go.