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I have a question. I am paralyzed from neck down. This happened 12 years ago. I have been looking for something alike this for a while. Since I don't have any use of my hands. And no feeling. Can my lover do this for me and is it safe for me to have done?

Thank you
Jeff

[ebon00]

Well, that depends on the nature of the paralysis really. If you have complete paralysis, as in loss of neural connections of the spinal chord, then you shouldn't be able to produce an erection and then the exercises kind of lose their use. If you are one of the lucky paralysis victims that can still attain erections for one reason or the other then it might work. It's a bit trickier than usual since you don't have any direct feedback system like someone who uses his own hands does so any possible work may be for naught because of too low an intensity and so on.

At the very least I would consult your physician before starting anything like this. If he has cleared you for sexual activity there's really nothing holding you back though.

As a whole I don't think anyone on this board knows enough about the possible complications from paralysis to be able to give you any definite advice. Trust your physician on this one.

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my doctor has cleared me for sexual activity a long time ago. I get involuntary erection's and when it is stimulated. Could this be for me? How long would she be doing these exercises. And how long a day. And how often during the day can this be done?

Thank you again
Jeff

[ebon00]

There have been plenty of "newbie" questions like this on the board so either use the search engine (top of the page) or browse through some of the threads in this section of the forum to get a general idea of a beginner's routine. You can also check the Enlargement Tracking forum for a number of routines and there are plenty of exercise descriptions in the Advanced techniques sticky at the top of this forum. Good luck.