Average Size

[White Lighting]

Hey Guys,

I have been going out with one hot woman for 2 months, about the same time I started the PE program. Started of 6.5Lx 5W. I think this is average? Measurements now are 6.75Lx 5W. Sex has been great. Last Friday night we had sex in the shower....she came twice while massaging her clit..felt great.... however after we were done and while laying in MY BED She mentioned that her previous boyfriend (for 7 years) was well endowed and used to give her bladder infections because the pressure of his penis was pushing against her bladder. Even though she has conveyed to me that she is very satisfied, that info bothers me. I don't think that is something you want to share with another man you are sleeping with. I feel like I have lost me confidence and do not know in which direction we are heading. One thing I do know is I am motivated to stay on the program and work hard to compete with the big dicks that are out there.

[pausydon]

Listen...
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You know when women say size doesn't matter... it's true to a large extent. For the length, it's true about 99% of the time. Most guys out there won't have a problem, length wise, to get a woman heated up. It's the nerves in the upper side of the woman's loins that are stimulated when she's being thrust so as long as you're 3 inches and more (or can simply reach those nerves), the game's already going your way. What adds to the encounter might be the girth because of the stretch and the simultaneous nerve stimulation. But, again, if the nerves are stimulated, it's all a matter of knowing how to stimulate them [well] and the game is won already. Being thicker or longer then average is respectively a bonus or just for show (for comparison purposes with other guys).

If your woman told you her last dude was too big, believer her: sex is not all about @#%$ for girls and they don't have that "extreme-more is better-no matter how ludicrous" mentality that some of us have.

Say you like getting diddled back there with pencils, sticks,etc., it's not by bringing in a tree trunk that you'll find it better because it's gonna hurt and you won't be able to enjoy sex anymore. Same thing with your chick and women in general.

6.5 inches is about an inch or to .5 inch bigger than the average but, like I said, length is only for appearance because what can make somewhat of a difference is the girth so that could be a point to work on.

Take it easy.

[jordo2k1]

well said pausydon. :)
pausydon is right infact check my older post called do it for the right reasons :)

[ajrferrari]

Hey,

I agree with the above, being about the size you are now will actually feel nicer to your girl than if you were huge. One of my girlfriends was with a 9 incher before me and she said that she always felt 'nervous' with him on top incase he pumped her too hard and hurt her. As you can imagine, when your nervous you cant relax into sex and end up having a @#%$ time every time.

She used to say that my 6 incher felt much nicer because i could really slam into her hard and let her relax, which therefore produces more orgasms.

Even now, my 8 inch tool causes some problems in certain positions which dfeats the point of actually working for a big dick!!! I defienetly dont want to get bigger than 9 bcos it would start to get impractical!!! Id rather get a nice fat girth measurement and tear her open instead!! he he lol

[jordo2k1]

GO ED MY SON :)

[Jearl]

Ferrari,

I totally agree, girth is so much more important then length. I have a 6.5" bpel by 6" girth and while I am okay with it, i want it to get bigger. The only thing I am worried about is I won't be able to wrap my whole hand around it because right now my thumb and middle finger are tight against it, but oh well, I'll jump that hurdle when I come to it. Now where was I, oh yes, getting big is one thing, too big is starting to get selfish because while you will have a huge @#%$, you may never get to use it without hurting someone, so be reasonable guys.

[White Lightning]

Thanks for all the positive feed back, it has helped my confidence. Have any of you checked with your doctor or a urologists to see if these exercises are safe (blood spots and all) and if the gains in size and length are permanent.