Blueboy
03-18-2005, 04:06 PM
Hello everyone .....
I can not begin to tell you how big of a step it is , for me to even be posting on a forum dealing with PE ! Since I was 13 yrs old , I've been TERRIBLY oppressed with feelings of inadequacy. I've been researching PE for 3 years , but finding this forum a few days ago , and reading extensively from it , has finally given me some hope. The very fact this forum is not directly trying to sell me something , tells me I can lower my level of beeing overly skeptical. What really sold me on it though , was when it hit me : " If this wasn't possible ( PE ) , and this site is just more lies and scams , then why the fuck would there be people taking the time out of their lives to post REAL posts here ?? "
On 99% of all my research results for PE in the last few years , the answer to that question was simple ..... THEY WERE SELLING SOMETHING , and only cared about money. So finding this site is a huge relief. I feel hopeful.
I've known about PE excercises for several years , and even tried them for a few weeks once , but I DID NOT HAVE any reason to believe it really worked. No reason to believe , No testimonials from anyone except people trying to sell me something.
I've owned a penis pump for several years , but only use it maybe 20 times a year before sex. It works reasonably well , but is ONLY temporary. Maybe it would have been permanent if I had of stuck to a regular routine.
I now have the motivation I was looking for , to help me stay a consistent course !!! Regular people like myself , available for resource , help , info , and motivation. Oh well .... I'm droning on. Here's the story ....
I never thought about penis size until the 7th grade , when I met a friend and his older brother. I was a naive kid , they were NOT AT ALL naive. I was fantasizing about kissing a girl , and they were screwing them. The older brother ( 19 yrs ) was EXTREMELY well endowed , and for some reason BOTH brothers placed tons of emphasis on how you were much less of a man unless you had a big dick. Since these friends were my peers I looked up to for new knowledge , this meant the world to me , and thus began my self esteem problems I still have to this day.
I was fully indoctrinated that ALL women like bigger dicks , and my own experiences with sex as my life progressed , proved this to be mostly true.
I'm slightly under average size when erect , but my flacid state is simply SHAMEFUL. I'd much rather have someone accidentally see me with a hard on , than flacid. My goals are GIRTH , with about 2" added in length. In the spirit of leaving the old insecure me behind , and beating this thing down , I will post my measurements in the next couple of days. I'm tired of being ashamed.
If you've heard this before from newbies , and think I'll not stick around to complete my goals , just sit and watch ! I've lost 45 lbs in 2 months , and if I can do that .........
I've searched until my eyes are bloodshot , and have learned TONS already , but still have a few questions and observations :
#1 - Why does it seem that the large majority of people here, are not very thoughtful about penis pumps ?? While I have no firm opinions either way , the idealogy seems sound. In the end , ALL methods of PE ends up about stretching the penis with more blood , and penis pumps do that. When I use mine , it not only improves girth through vaccuum , but also it pulls the canister against my pubic mound , which in turns means it's stretching the length towards the end of the canister. I was just about to purchase a CTC brand electric pump ( supposedly superior ) , when I found this site.
#2 - I am EXTREMELY cautious feeling about stretching devices like the SizeGenitics one that is mentioned so much on this forum. EVERYTHING I've read so far , states that stretching devices will make your penis thinner. AND , if I do decide from your answers that I should try a stretching device , how in hell am I supposed to wear one for several hours per day ??? I work 8 hours , then I'm at home with a 13 yr old son , who can't see me walking around sporting a stretching device !!
The answer to this vexes me. Any SAFE devices that can be effectively hidden under clothes ?
#3 - In using the search function for newbie penis excercises routines .... I found HUNDREDS !!!
Almost ALL were different in most every way. I think it would be an awesome idea if a group of the most knowledgeable and sucessful members here, got together and condensed methods from ALL the differing routines , down into say 3 routines for beginners , and post it in a Sticky. That way if one didn't work so well for an individual , one of the other two probably would. Anyone want to kindly point me in a good direction for starting penis excercises ??
#4 - What to buy , what to buy ..... I'm VERY skeptical of pills , and they are truthfully probably at the edge of being too expensive for my finances , but I'll try them if it's the overwhelming consensus. I'll wait on buying the SizeGenitics package deal , until I hear more from you guys about stretching devices. I AM signing up for Penis Health.
#5 - I'm sold on the Amazing Ring device , due solely to the overwhelming positive results posted by the members here ..... If it were not for that , I'd mark it down to psychological snake oil !! I've ordered my Zinc rod , and have copper tubing and latex tubing already .... But there's a slight problem with this : I'm a high rider , partially due to my slightly excess pubic pad and surrounding fat ( 6'0 tall and down to 243 lbs .... My goal is 200 lbs !! ).!!!! It's also going to make it difficult to wear the ring .... Most of the time , my balls are tucked up into my body , and this DRIVES ME CRAZY !!! So can someone direct me to the FASTEST methods of making my balls hang lower , while I DO RESEARCH ALSO ?? I'm not lazy , just excited about getting started !!
Thanks for your time , help , and spirit of working together to ALL obtain our goals !!
I can not begin to tell you how big of a step it is , for me to even be posting on a forum dealing with PE ! Since I was 13 yrs old , I've been TERRIBLY oppressed with feelings of inadequacy. I've been researching PE for 3 years , but finding this forum a few days ago , and reading extensively from it , has finally given me some hope. The very fact this forum is not directly trying to sell me something , tells me I can lower my level of beeing overly skeptical. What really sold me on it though , was when it hit me : " If this wasn't possible ( PE ) , and this site is just more lies and scams , then why the fuck would there be people taking the time out of their lives to post REAL posts here ?? "
On 99% of all my research results for PE in the last few years , the answer to that question was simple ..... THEY WERE SELLING SOMETHING , and only cared about money. So finding this site is a huge relief. I feel hopeful.
I've known about PE excercises for several years , and even tried them for a few weeks once , but I DID NOT HAVE any reason to believe it really worked. No reason to believe , No testimonials from anyone except people trying to sell me something.
I've owned a penis pump for several years , but only use it maybe 20 times a year before sex. It works reasonably well , but is ONLY temporary. Maybe it would have been permanent if I had of stuck to a regular routine.
I now have the motivation I was looking for , to help me stay a consistent course !!! Regular people like myself , available for resource , help , info , and motivation. Oh well .... I'm droning on. Here's the story ....
I never thought about penis size until the 7th grade , when I met a friend and his older brother. I was a naive kid , they were NOT AT ALL naive. I was fantasizing about kissing a girl , and they were screwing them. The older brother ( 19 yrs ) was EXTREMELY well endowed , and for some reason BOTH brothers placed tons of emphasis on how you were much less of a man unless you had a big dick. Since these friends were my peers I looked up to for new knowledge , this meant the world to me , and thus began my self esteem problems I still have to this day.
I was fully indoctrinated that ALL women like bigger dicks , and my own experiences with sex as my life progressed , proved this to be mostly true.
I'm slightly under average size when erect , but my flacid state is simply SHAMEFUL. I'd much rather have someone accidentally see me with a hard on , than flacid. My goals are GIRTH , with about 2" added in length. In the spirit of leaving the old insecure me behind , and beating this thing down , I will post my measurements in the next couple of days. I'm tired of being ashamed.
If you've heard this before from newbies , and think I'll not stick around to complete my goals , just sit and watch ! I've lost 45 lbs in 2 months , and if I can do that .........
I've searched until my eyes are bloodshot , and have learned TONS already , but still have a few questions and observations :
#1 - Why does it seem that the large majority of people here, are not very thoughtful about penis pumps ?? While I have no firm opinions either way , the idealogy seems sound. In the end , ALL methods of PE ends up about stretching the penis with more blood , and penis pumps do that. When I use mine , it not only improves girth through vaccuum , but also it pulls the canister against my pubic mound , which in turns means it's stretching the length towards the end of the canister. I was just about to purchase a CTC brand electric pump ( supposedly superior ) , when I found this site.
#2 - I am EXTREMELY cautious feeling about stretching devices like the SizeGenitics one that is mentioned so much on this forum. EVERYTHING I've read so far , states that stretching devices will make your penis thinner. AND , if I do decide from your answers that I should try a stretching device , how in hell am I supposed to wear one for several hours per day ??? I work 8 hours , then I'm at home with a 13 yr old son , who can't see me walking around sporting a stretching device !!
The answer to this vexes me. Any SAFE devices that can be effectively hidden under clothes ?
#3 - In using the search function for newbie penis excercises routines .... I found HUNDREDS !!!
Almost ALL were different in most every way. I think it would be an awesome idea if a group of the most knowledgeable and sucessful members here, got together and condensed methods from ALL the differing routines , down into say 3 routines for beginners , and post it in a Sticky. That way if one didn't work so well for an individual , one of the other two probably would. Anyone want to kindly point me in a good direction for starting penis excercises ??
#4 - What to buy , what to buy ..... I'm VERY skeptical of pills , and they are truthfully probably at the edge of being too expensive for my finances , but I'll try them if it's the overwhelming consensus. I'll wait on buying the SizeGenitics package deal , until I hear more from you guys about stretching devices. I AM signing up for Penis Health.
#5 - I'm sold on the Amazing Ring device , due solely to the overwhelming positive results posted by the members here ..... If it were not for that , I'd mark it down to psychological snake oil !! I've ordered my Zinc rod , and have copper tubing and latex tubing already .... But there's a slight problem with this : I'm a high rider , partially due to my slightly excess pubic pad and surrounding fat ( 6'0 tall and down to 243 lbs .... My goal is 200 lbs !! ).!!!! It's also going to make it difficult to wear the ring .... Most of the time , my balls are tucked up into my body , and this DRIVES ME CRAZY !!! So can someone direct me to the FASTEST methods of making my balls hang lower , while I DO RESEARCH ALSO ?? I'm not lazy , just excited about getting started !!
Thanks for your time , help , and spirit of working together to ALL obtain our goals !!