View Full Version : How Has Your Increased Size Affected Your Partner?
pearce6
08-01-2005, 08:00 PM
We've heard some incredible stories from our members about their size gains. What we'd like in this thread, is how it's affected your sex life and your partner. Have they been pleased with the changes? Let us know!
SEBA4
08-02-2005, 10:49 AM
My partner has no idea i am carrying out the exercises, but has commented on my penis feeling thicker on entry lol..Another thing i have noticed and i know she has been telling her girlfriends is my increased sex drive and confidence in bed, this is due to the exercises and wearing the ROP, i want it far more often now and even if i never gained i now know that with the improved confidence and fuller erections and also improved drive i can always put a smile on her face. So far so very good.
hope2grow
08-02-2005, 11:00 AM
I havent been active since i began the PE, however i have been naked around a girl ( by fluke..she came into the bath room while i was done a shower ) and i had just finished some stretches, it was my off day, and she was taken aback for a little while, then she smiled and Slowly walked out of the bathroom....lol....she has been a little nervous and speechless around me for a few days now...not sure if its a bad or good thing :o ....... :rolleyes:
Mudrubble
08-03-2005, 11:45 AM
Let me put it simply:
She was inexperienced (but beautiful - religious) when I met her, one partner, maybe 6 or 7 different occasions in her LIFE! She didn't know if she could even orgasm! I had MAJOR problems staying hard with condoms on. We had promising but so-so sex. No orgasm, but she "enjoyed" it. Sometimes more than others.
After a few weeks (about 3 weeks) doing exercises, and using the ROP (no pills, traction, devices), she says she "can't take her eyes off of it" when it is flaccid. It is bigger, no doubt about it. But what about when it is hard? She swears it is bigger, I will measure in a week, but I can tell it is. It feels thicker and stronger. It is harder. Heavier. It does not get sore after a night of sex, as the nights of PE have conditioned it to be stronger, more resilient. I can stay hard in a condom for hours, it seems (granted, I only use MAXX condoms - I have no share in the company, this is free advertising because it saved my "protected sex" life! - they are MUCH higher quality latex and increase sensation tremendously), and can seemingly cum whenever I want, with about 2 minutes notice to work it up.
But the EFFECT on my girl?
Well, let's say that she cums 4-5 OR MORE times per session now. There is NO doubt she can come! Time before last, she actually EJACULATED a puddle on the bed, no lie. Last night she made noises I have NEVER heard her make. I thought I was damaging her!! She came in succession, and nearly worshipped me for it!! NO LIE at all! I rarely even used the WHOLE dick! Just about 75-80% of it! She came one time when I was only doing short strokes with about 2-3 inches of it! Crazy! I'm reliving it now, writing this! Last night was CRAZY nice!
When I came, it felt like someone actually pulled a string attached to my nuts! It SHOT out like a racehorse (after over an hour of STEADY, ACTIVE fucking!) that I thought it might bust the condom! I made some unusual noises!
Now let me say, I've always been a pretty good lover, so this is not ALL PE. But recently, I'd lost most my confidence, due to age creeping up and not staying as hard, ESPECIALLY in a condom (use MAXX, ESPECIALLY for larger sized cats, but get the regular size if you're regular). I actually premature ejaculated about 3 weeks ago, for the FIRST time since a youngster! That meant my PC was losing control, losing strength. My confidence was shot. Since then, I feel that I am a better lover now than EVER, even when I was 19-22! I can kill ANY girl you throw at me right now! Give me a 300 lb heffer, and although I WOULDN'T, I know I COULD! Any size, weight, I'll kill it right now. She WILL come, more than once.
This is all off of 3 weeks PEing! Obviously, the BIGGEST difference to me is the strength and endurance, the resilience of the unit. The greater control is the second best gift. The extra 1/2 inch or so is simply icing on the top of the cake! This really IS penis HEALTH! I will do at least another 5 months, but I think I'll ALWAYS do a few jelq sessions per week, because it feels good, but also because it keeps the thing STRONG! READY!
I can honestly say, it took me from feeling worried about age, virility, to feeling like the best lover in the world. That is all PE. And only 3 weeks of it, so far!
My advice? Pay attention to stretching and jelqing of course, but don't do anything crazy. FEEL into it. FEEL your blood being moved about. Don't think that by simply moving your hands up your dick that you're moving sufficient blood. When blood is being moved into new spaces, those new spaces feel a pressure (pain, probably is too much, although I feel a little HEALTHY pain in my sessions. If you cannot differentiate healthy from unhealthy pain, don't allow any pain. I came in here with a good level of sensitivity), so FEEL this pressure. If you don't, you're probably not moving that much blood, or not into new spaces anyway. Also, DON'T slack on PC exercises, especially SLOWLY letting go of any flex. Flex quickly if you want, but release SLOWLY. I read that on this site. Changed my world. Wear an ROP (Ring of Power). Rest properly.
And be patient and loving with your dick at all times. Be safe and respectful. Don't take out your frustrations on it and overdo it. PEing has changed my life, and I am a lifetime convert (even if I had to keep this up for life, I would!)
Peace.
Smoky
08-03-2005, 12:49 PM
Well Mudrubble, congrats bro. You sound like one hell of a success story, how big were you when you started out?
Well, I can't say it has done too much of a difference since I started PE after my girlfriend of 3 yrs and me split up. But we did have a sex when I was a month or two into it and she thought it was longer... didn't notice it being thicker, even though that was up a 1/4 inch. But she came twice pretty quick and was having fun with it.
Mudrubble
08-04-2005, 06:02 PM
I just put that info in my signature......check it out.....
This is an important subject, to me. Because I've had plenty of "unfotunately-sex-is-not-gonna-happen" episodes.
Back in high school - a while ago now, (where even then, I had 6" in girth), I remember there were several girls I COULDN'T have sex with -and yes, we tried- it just wouldn't go in, no matter what. She was just too tight. My senior year, there was this cute babe, Ashley, who was kind of a short, smaller-sized chick.. she was really hot, and we had a crush. Started making out, which I think it WOULD have been her first time, but when it came time to (try to) have intercourse... sheesh... wasn't gonna happen. I guess, maybe if I'd wanted to hurt her, I could have found a way to get it in, but, that was out of of the question. So, I just kind of half-way inserted the head, and made the most of the situation, from there. Same thing happened with Carrie, and Melissa, that senior year. Technically, I never had sex my senior year, because those were the only 3, and they were all very tight! Maybe I should have been more aggressive... but, not my style.
I never considered myself as being that big, either. I guess my girth was above average, perhaps. But not by that much, as far as I knew. Anyway, nowadays, afer years of PE, well, obviously things are... bigger than ever. I meet grown women I CAN'T have sex with. Well, probably could - but they probably would not enjoy it at all. I dunno.... seems like I always get the chicks who are really tight. I do have a thing for smaller, almost petite women, so I guess it figures, huh. That, and they are usually the decent, nice young ladies, that don't ever have much in the way of sexual activity. Plus, they seem to have a thing for me. Unfortunately, 'sex' in the intercourse sense, is not always feasible. One time I had this little chick that could barely even get her MOUTH around me. She tried, though. No complaints. Just so long as she's down there, enjoying herself, what's to complain about? :D
So why am I going for more, you ask? Because c'mon! This is great! :)
At least, I think so. -OK, fine, so I can't (comfortably) have sex with every woman I'm with. So what. I have certain 'items' in the nightstand drawer... for just such purposes.
Mudrubble
08-05-2005, 10:59 AM
I used to hear this complaint a lot from my peoples who have larger sized dicks, especially when we were younger. In high school, definitely had the same problems getting in. Things could even turn painful for me, much less her, BUT here is what I've learned:
ANY pussy can be stretched to 4 finger size given the right pressure and the right rhythm. I have not had every pussy, but I've had virgins accept four fingers up to the knuckle. It has nothing to do with size or body type. EVERY woman can pass a baby's head through there, except those with advanced problems. Considering how TINY ALL dicks are compared to a baby's head, we can see that the pussy CAN stretch that large.
Now true, she is screaming in pain during labour and it is not erotic! But considering how small a penis is compared to the potential of the tunnel, it should be possible to stretch ANY woman COMFORTABLY to accomodate 7 or even 8 inches (the girth of my 4 fingers when squeezed together), GIVEN THE RIGHT AMOUNT OF SENSITIVITY. Woman's orafices (except for mouths) can ALL be stretched to shocking sizes, inside of 10 to 15 mins of foreplay, given the right pressure at the right time, and the right rhythm. Even if it was previously unused.
I think that if dudes with 7" girth want to get in a woman and have her like it, it is TOTALLY possible, IF they are sensitive enough to all her cues, and creative and careful enough in their approach. I don't know if some guys feel awkward stretching out a girl before sex, but I do it as routine, and I guarantee you you can put just about any dick of any size in any hole if you're determined and sensitive.
I should add that in most cases, girls cannot tell if you have 2 or 4 fingers in them. I have never had a girl be able to tell if I didn't tell her, so you don't have to even tell her you're stretching her, just keep inserting another finger, not going too deep, move lightly (very lightly sometimes) back and forth, FIND THE APPROPRIATE RHYTHM, and the whole slackens almost immediately. You can feel it suddenly go limp and slack sometimes, all at once. Suddenly, this little virgin is taking your hand right up to the knuckle and liking it.
The ONLY thing I've found that can prevent this stretching is if the girl is nervous. So, work on making her comfortable, rubbing her thighs and belly while you're doing it (to distract her attention and relax her) and etc and etc., and ANY hole can accept way more than we think.
Our problem is sometimes we just try to be simple men and push our way in. Even that can work, given the right rhythm and pressure, but it is less likely by far! I say that if you can't loosen her up with the tool, then get very creative with your hands, but a tight pussy is NO reason to pass up on some good, mutually enjoyable sex!
I've seen girls go from tight as hell and nervous to boot, to taking incredible amounts of force and pressure from a big dick, or even a hand, all inside of 15 mins, so it is DEFINITELY possible!
BUt then also, you might just enjoy the feeling of being too big to fuck. If that is the deal, keep enjoying it! Good luck!
pearce6
08-16-2005, 07:22 PM
These are some great stories guys, keep them coming
wohoo19m
08-16-2005, 08:13 PM
Well my girlfriend had never voiced anything, but her body was telling me that she was enjoying herself alot more. Anyway, last night after we were finished she just said in a confused tone: " Did it get bigger?!" But before that she said, " Well that was fun" in a playfull tone. So I'm feeling optimistic about the future.
chadd
08-17-2005, 01:27 AM
I started PE in mid March and I decided to tell my wife about 3 weeks into the process. she was asking me why I was taking such long showers and why I was in the bathroom for so long. Her reaction to a larger penis has been totally positive. The first thing she noticed was how much more thicker and the harder it was when she gave oral sex. Then she noticed how much longer I lasted during sex, I went from being the 5min man to lasting 25-30min Witch is do to the PC exercises and the Cockring. We have sex much more ofton, and my wife is always makeing little comments to me about how long my flaccid hang looks, and how she likes to look at it. She's always ask me if I'm aroused, my flaccid was like a button when I was cold and now its about 4.25" long. I know she make comments to her friends about our sex life, because of the giggling and looks I get from her friends (its totally obvious) when I come into the room. It's cool though cause it make you feel like "The man" lol. She has never seen me do the exercises, but she tell me; "what ever you are doing, keep it up". So over all the responce has been awsome. :D
gymrd
08-18-2005, 07:19 AM
My wife and I needed something new to have the energetic sex. So my solution was to enlarge my penis. Now he is 6,5 (he was 5). The success exceeded our expectations. My wife confessed that her feelings were as if she had the sex with another partner. :D ;) :D
lazarus
08-18-2005, 10:35 AM
I've been married for 18 years now and have always had a good sex life. I've been PEing now for 3 months without my wife knowing about it and the last couple of times having sex my wife has remarked how much "bigger I feel than normal". I have gone from 5.25 to 6" in length and I've put on about 1/2 inch in girth from 5.75 to 6.25" so I guess it is working for both of us.
BW
Lazarus
Daz MN Support
12-24-2005, 06:18 AM
bump.................
mmilosav
01-03-2006, 11:17 AM
My partner can not get enough on me, and new confidence coming with the big size has made me eminate an aura around women who adore me
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