Not Enough Time

[dragon65]

Hi, as I am new to this, and really want to get somewhere, problem is I am pushed for quiet time with my kids at home, does anyone know where the patches, or cream,gels are available in the Brisbane area, so I can at least get started without having to lock myself in my room ?. could do with the help
cheers Dragon

[Jamon Iberico]

Hi Dragon,

No idea about Brisbane or the gels, but just wanted to sympathise about the lack of time. Unfortunately I think that time is one of the critical elements for success in pe and you just have to make it. I also have two kids and a wife, and have been at this now for a month.

At first I just tried the excuse of escaping for a while for a quiet crap with a book, but that wears thin after a while and doesn't explain why you come out smelling of baby oil!!

In the end I have spent the past three weeks doing it at about 1 am when everyone is in bed. Its the only time I can get together everything I need and be sure of having a good half hour to concentrate on the workout.

Tough one! Good luck mate.

[Smoky]

Tell your wife (if you have one) what you are doing. I bet she'll help cover for you if the kids are wondering where you are. Or she might freak out if she is closed minded, but explain to her this will make your sex life better... how could it not? You know what I mean? And if she is freaking out just let her help in measuring you every month and she can see the gains too and she'll start getting as excitied as you.

[Jamon Iberico]

Well don't know about you Dragon, but that's not something I'll be doing!! It makes perfect sense Smoky, and I'd like to think it would get that kind of reaction but i think my wife would look at this as pure male vanity (which it is I guess), and that is a real turn off for her.

Obviously, when the gains start coming we'll have to start explaining but at least then it'll look like more than just a "pipe dream" :D