When to TELL her?

[Vitella]

When should you tell your wife/partner, in my case wife that I have been doing PE? SHe as notcied and commented after sex that she is a bit sore, this must be because of my gains, she does seem to be liking sex more now though.

When did you tell your partner?

[phenom]

I think you should tell her if she sees doing PE or ask you about your dick being bigger. The reason why I say that is because since you've been making gains and making her sore, then she can't say that your crazy for trying a program like that. I told my wife what I was doing and she gave the typical wife thing "i like the way you are" It's nice to have my wife watching me as I do PH, but I always have to kick her out of the room because she wants to do other things. :-) So maybe if you tell your wife then you can have a cheerleader beside as you tug, pull, and stretch your way to your goal.

[Daz MN Support]

I had to tell my partner at the time because she thought there was something wrong with her when I told her she was shocked but happy as well.

Women tend to tell their partners "size doesn't matter" etc etc but then brag if their partner as a big penis etc. I personally think size does matter.

[RedBear]

I told my wife because it was awkward finding time to do it in private.

Like all others, she said that I was perfect the way I was. I believe that. This is something we mostly do for ourselves.

By the way I have gone from about 6x4.75 to 6.75x5. She does not like the extra length (she is small) but mostly appreciates the extra girth.

[Daz MN Support]

RedBear so your aim is now just for girth? or you wil lcontinue with extra length?

[RedBear]

My aim is predominately penis health/strength. I could handle (no pun intended) and would like some more girth. Of course I would like more length but it might mean less sex so - not something I am shooting for.

Therefore, I mostly torture my dick for girth and do some sit stretches for flacid length.

[Edward]

Hey Vitella

It's been about a month since you've posted on this topic.

I was wondering if things improved for you and your wife?

Although it is true that a longer penis can hit the back wall of the vigina and cause discomfort, it is important not to rule out other factors. Such as: a yeast infection -or- vaginal dryness.

As for "when to tell her" is anybody's guess. But I would say that most guys are opposed to discussing it with their partner(s) at first, because they may fear the possibility of rejection or laughter that may come from her.

I think they just want to see if she'll notice any differences in how things feel when the time comes and wait for their response before discussing it any further.

I never told my wife, until she asked me: what was in the package that came in the mail for me? Penis Enlargement Pills, I said.

Her initial response was silence and a glaring look regarding the amount of money it cost me. Even though I used my own secret stash of money.

No matter how much she complains to me about the amount of time I spend with you guys on this forum (which by the way is the extent of my social life) and working the PE program, she never seems to complain about the extra pleasure she is getting from my greater gains that I've made on my penis.

And considering my situation, as some of you may know from reading my post on Adulerous - To Be -Or- Not To Be? (www.mens-network.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=688), my wife and I have had more sex this year (2003) than I've seen in a long time. :p LoL...Go figure