 This is one of my pet peeves. Every man has had it happen to them and when I tell you what it is, your nut sack will go deep into your stomach.
Every man has had a girlfriend who nagged them every time they look to long at woman.
They expect us to see that their new curtains liven up the room, how the new skirt she is wearing makes her hips look small, but yet we are blind to all other women.
To us men, the idea is crazy, some how with women this comes out to a valid equation. Every man who is breathing will look at someone they find attractive. If this was the dog world, we would go sniff their ass.
Since it isn't, we use our eyes and stare and dream about them. Every man does it, so why don't women realize that? In the animal world it isn't too uncommon for females to fight for the superior male.
This happens in many species. If the male was about to mount them to have sex and another female tried to steal her man, she would get upset. We maybe not be animals, but I believe we are closer to them than we think.
Of course your woman doesn't like you looking at those nice firm breasts of another woman because it makes her jealous. In her mind she thinks you should only want to see her breasts. I have news for her! If you have been married for any length of time, you may love her breasts, but you will break your neck at the chance to see some new ones.
We are visual creatures. We need to be stimulated visually. Women really don't understand this. They are tend to be stimulated mentally. They want to be told how much you love them, while men on the other hand, just want them to put their cans in your face. It is a vast contrast.
I have learned many techniques on how to deal with this.
Try not too look too long. Keep a good mental image of what you just saw. Go over it in your mind. She doesn't know if you keep looking at that nice ass in your mind. Be open about it.
Tell her that you look at other women, but they aren't as pretty as her. Well, one might consider that as being open with a sugar coating. After all, at the end of the day you are with her right? She has no reason to doubt your love for her.
Avoid looking at all costs. If your woman can't handle the idea of you looking at other women, don't do it when she is around. I am not sure how men handle women like this. I think after a few hours with a woman like this, I would be running to the news stand to get the latest copy of Hustler.
Love is strange isn't it? If you don't like having a woman nag you about looking at other women, I would suggest you seek out a bisexual partner. I have had several bisexual girlfriends and have found the whole experience to be very enjoyable. It is the closest thing to heaven on earth there is.
One bisexual girlfriend would always point out women with nice breasts and nice asses to me. That made my day. Not only did I have a girlfriend with a nice ass and a nice rack, she pointed out other ones for me to see! We would point out to each other when we saw someone attractive.
I had another bisexual girlfriend that had a fetish for breasts. She always would point out the big firm breasts to me. I have come to the conclusion that women are more suited for finding these than we are. She could point out a pair of nice breasts a mile away. Oh, how I long for those days.
If your woman is nagging you that your eyes wander too much, she may have a point. You might look too much. There might be reasons for that. It is important to understand why you are looking at women in such a manner that brings it to your woman's attention.
Maybe you are unhappy in your relationship. Maybe you didn't find her attractive, but an easy piece of ass. There could be a million reasons why you are looking at other women due to your unhappiness in your relationship.
Unless it is a constant hassle, I wouldn't worry too much about your looking at other women. If your old lady gets on your case too much about it, wait and do it on your computer. There is so much porn on the net these days, you will never get sick of it. |
