 Most of us aren't as young as we used to be. Those years flied by us without a warning. Oh, to have those years come back. As we age I think that we try to relive our youth.
I'm not sure why this is. Maybe the idea of death scares us, maybe we want our full head of hair back, or maybe we are just tired of hanging out with old farts
Many times I think men try to date younger women to try to regain their youth. It may not make sense, but men still do it. It is like buying that fast sports car to make you feel young again. It doesn't hurt that the young babes turn your head when you drive by in it either.
Part of me doesn't understand why men date younger women. I can't see what an older man and a younger woman have in common. They grew up in two different generations. You grew up in the Vietnam era while she grew up in the 90's big bubble of wealth.
You watched your friends go off to war and die, she watched all of her friends' parents get rich on the stock market. On the other hand, I completely understand it. You are a man in your 40's. Chances are you date women in their 40's. You can replace that with any number you wish, but I think you get the drift.
Chances are women that are your age have a lot of baggage. They either have kids, or wrinkles. I'm not sure which is worse for a woman to have. They don't look like a woman who is 20 years younger. Their breasts sag, their asses are covered with cottage cheese and stretch marks, and they get up too damn early in the morning!
Men are looking for two things when they are seeking a relationship with an younger woman; They want to restore their youth, or they want to bang a hot piece of ass. I don't think it gets any more simple than that.
On the other hand, for a woman it is much different. She may date an older man for many different reasons. I'm not talking about a young college student finding an 80 year old man to marry. Other than gold digging, I don't think there would be much she could do with an 80 year old man.
Most women who seek out men older than them will generally seek out men who are 10 to 20 years older.
Sometimes when a woman doesn't have a father figure during her childhood, she will search for one when she gets older. I think women do this because they want the love from an older man they never had. Though I must say, I don't know why they have sex with them.
Love and sex is two different things. Far be it for me to try to understand the thought process of a woman. I think another aspect of it is, older men tend to be ready to settle down. They are tired of the guys their age who just want a piece of ass. Their internal clock is ticking and they want to make some babies.
I think the problem is, is that most women who like older men don't understand why older men want them. They think the man is truly in love with them and they will live happily ever after. While the man is trying to regain his youth so he isn't reminded every day by looking at an old hag next to him in bed that his life is over.
He will soon be pushing daises and finding out if God really exists. Sometimes these women are gold diggers and men don't see it coming. They see a young piece of hot ass and they think they are interested in them because of their worldly experience. That they have something personally they can offer her. When in fact, all they care about is how many credit cards you have in your wallet.
I would urge any older man reading this to not get involved in such a relationship. I think that some of these relationships are genuinely based on love, but most of them aren't.
Don't fool yourself. Instead you should try to understand why it is you are going after young women. If you are trying to avoid getting old, WAKE UP! No young piece of ass will stop the aging process. You might die with a smile on your face, but you still will be dead.
Aging is a process in life. Sometimes I like to think of us who are aging as the lucky ones in life. We see so many young people who die of disease, war, poverty and other things. We have been lucky enough to live on. Don't fear getting old. Instead enjoy it.
Enjoy the fact that most of your stupid mistakes are over and now you can go onto enjoying life. That young piece of ass might be good if it doesn't give you a heart attack, but don't per sue it as a long term relationship. |
