 You may hate saying it, but you are forced to every day. It is one of the oldest tricks in the book and men fall for it every time. Ah, you sucker, you have fallen for it many times.
A woman wants a man who is open with their feelings, right? She wants a man who will cry on her shoulder and tell her his deepest secrets? No, not really. She wants something more.
When a woman wants you to tell her that you love her, it isn't because she wants love. She knows you love her, or at least she knows you love her breasts. There is more to it than that. If it were so simple. The government hires people who know how to manipulate a person.
This is why they aren't violent. They know if they mess with your head, it is worse than hitting you. They more they know about you, the more than can use against you.
When you start to feel comfortable and tell them your deepest secrets, this is new weapons they have to fight the war. If they know you are uneasy about your bald spot, they will bring it up in the next argument.
If they know you have a weak spot in your childhood, they will use it against you. They are cold and calculated. They work like a laser guided missile. They know how to sink your battleship and they will do it every time. Now you know.
She doesn't want a man who is sensitive, she wants a man who she can manipulate. Ahhh, that is what it is all about, manipulation. You see when she knows your weak points, she can exploit them.
She can use these tools to bring us down. If they are able to bring us down, they are able to control us. Controlling us with sex isn't good enough, they need to go the extra mile. A woman wants to control her man.
She wants to control the person who brings all the money into the house. Because if it wasn't for him, there would be no house, no car, no food in the ice box and so forth. She has something at stake here.
If she looses you, she looses her meal ticket. She will have to get off her fat ass and get a real job. Cooking burnt chicken and half ass cleaning the house isn't a job. Though she wants you to believe it is. She knows witch buttons to push so she doesn't loose you. You are now like a dog on a leash.
The only difference between you and the dog is, is that she puts your food on a plate and not in a bowl. You need to understand that if you are in this situation clam up. Be like a P.O.W in war time. When the captures ask you anything, repeat the same line over and over again. Lie if you have to. Your survival is at stake!
Don't give her any more weapons against you than you have to. You don't deserve to be manipulated. She is already doing it with sex, why allow her to do it to your mind. If you are in a situation like this, there are some things you can do to help yourself.
Don't talk about your feelings. If you are upset find a friend or therapist to talk to. Don't give her anymore weapons against you!
Tell her to bug off when she is using stuff against you. Go in another room, go spend some money on yourself, go watch some porn. That will piss her off. Most importantly, get the hell away from her. If you are at this point I hope you weren't suckered into having kids. Pack your bags and run like hell.
Do everything you can to get away from her. If you are lucky and not married, take everything you own. Leave the crazed bitch with nothing. She fucked with your head, why not? She is owed it! No one should be allowed to do something like that to you! |
