 When to lie and when not to lie? Most of us think that we learned when the right time to lie is, when we were a child. For the most part that isn't true.
It isn't true because the lies that we told as we were a kid don't count, Or have any bearing on the type of lies that we have to tell a woman as an adult.
Most men understand that they have to tell little white lies to continue on with the relationship. That is a given. You know that you have to do this and that you will have to do it for the rest of your life. There is nothing wrong with it if you understand how to do it properly.
The problem is that most men don't. Women are better liars than we are. They are adverse in it. It is part of the manipulation they use to control us. They will use every tool in the trade to control us. We have to learn how to lie. Not to be able to cheat or do anything bad like that, but to live day to day.
It is an important part of a relationship to ensure that it functions. When was the last time your old woman asked you if you thought her hips were getting fat? Probably yesterday or the last time you had sex.
What did you tell her? Of course you told her that you don't think her hips are getting fat.
You lied.
When she asks if you like her mother. You don't tell her that she is a crazy bitch who doesn't keep her mouth shut. Instead you tell her that you think her mother is a great woman, who can by the way fix a damn good meat loaf. She doesn't know you fed the meat loaf to the dog and you blocked out every word she said to you.
You lied.
When you go out and have spent a ton of money at the topless bar. You don't tell her that you spent all night with nice big boobies in your face. Throwing your money around like you just won at monopoly. You tell her that you went out for a few beers with your buddies and you put the money in a salvation army bucket.
You lied.
As you can see, these little white lies are what keeps a relationship strong. She doesn't know you hate her mom, that you think her ass is fat, all she thinks is what you are telling her. Women get used to men telling them this. So when you say it, they don't see it as lies. The problem is that over the years these little white lies build up.
You almost have to write a book to keep them straight. You can remember that five years ago you saw aunt Thelma and you said that her blood pudding was great.
You never thought something as horrible as blood pudding would taste good. So when aunt Thelma comes to visit, she fixes her famous blood pudding and you tell your old lady that it tastes like shit.
You need to keep your lies pure and simple. Keep to the ones that you can remember. Like her ass isn't fat, her mom is a great woman and so forth.
If you go over the edge, then you will pay for it in the long run. Instead of using the little white lie method, I suggest you go a different route. Stay neutral. This my friend, will save you a lot of heart aches.
If you go visit a friend and the cat from hell won't leave you alone, don't lie and say you love cats. Instead pick a quality about the cat that you like.
Tell her that it has a beautiful white coat. If you eat dinner with mom, don't tell her that the whole meal consists of everything that is your favorite. Tell her that you enjoyed the creamed corn. They were some good eats.
By doing this not only are you not lying, but you are saving your ass. You won't have to remember the lies that you said to make her feel good. This won't be a way for her to get out of sex. You know how women are when they find out you lied. The first thing to go is always the sex.
In an ideal world us men wouldn't have to lie. In an ideal world your old woman would get fat, she wouldn't cook stuff that tastes like shit. Since this isn't a perfect world, this stuff will continue to happen. So, the next time don't come up with some lie that you will never be able to keep.
Don't tell her that you have been to the Grand Canyon if you have never even been to a stream. She will eventually find out. Instead approach things differently. It will save you a lot of problems and will keep you happy in bed. |
