 Every man has the perfect partner out there for them. However, most men either never find her, or just do not get her. With our help you will find your own perfect match, which you deserve.
The first step is set out want you want to achieve and lay down some guidelines.
You may want to find that perfect woman, or improve the one you've got, or even replace her. Your girlfriend must be just right for you- a second rate article just isn't good enough and in the long term just won't satisfy you.
A good starting point is to work out who you are and what you want. Being strong and convictional about these goals is very important!
Women are attracted to men who know what they want and are self assured- it simply grabs their attention! So firstly start to get to know who you are.
Take your time here, as you are a very complex being. The more time you spend doing this, the better you will know yourself and the more you will be equipped to start dealing with the female side.
It will enable you to judge a lot clearer what type of women is right for you, who you are more likely to connect with. This will save you a lot of time and embarrassment in the long run, after all there is no point wasting time on unworthy women who simply are not right for you.
GATHER THE INFO:
How many times have you looked in magazines or in paper and seen a women who you would like to be with? Or seen clothes that would suit you perfectly? ALL THE TIME! Start collecting these images and keeping them together, they will help you realise and achieve your goals. Collect anything relevant to what you want to achieve.
This will enable to create a picture of what you want to achieve in your mind's eye making it more obtainable. Use them to inspire you whenever you feel it necessary- when you suffer a knock back or lose concentration.
Not only will they make you remain focused, they will also grow into a back catalogue of ideas, meaning you can use them to create new and exciting situations and dates when needed.
GRAB A PEN AND PAPER:
This chapter is all about getting to know yourself. We do this by analysing what you want, and what kind of women you want by answering a series of questions.
It is important that you write down your answers to these questions as it will make it lot easier to refer to in later chapters. It is very important that you answer these questions honestly and correctly. Take you time and don't be embarrassed.
These questions will form the base of what you will work from to obtain the perfect girlfriend. It is also a great way to measure your progress. By looking back you will be able to work out where you went wrong, and thus learn from your mistakes. Make sure you keep all your written work together, so it is easy to refer to at a moment's notice.
BE PREPARED:
I must stress that there is absolutely no point in doing this, unless you are going to give it 100%. Meeting the perfect women, and dating her is not easy, and doesn’t happen to everyone- IT TAKES WORK AND COMMITMENT.
But you are totally in the driving seat- all the choices are yours- make sure you take time and effort to make the right ones, which will change you and the relationships you are going to build.
By being able to make these decisions you have the power to take your life into your own hands- and make everything count.
If you take responsibility for everything- whether the outcome is good or bad, it will mean that you will be able to make a difference to your next decision, thus moving on. It is very important that you make the correct decisions that reflect what you want and your goals.
DESCRIBE YOU…
Now take that pen and paper and put it to good use. The first step is to describe yourself. Remember, be honest, if you aren't then the outcome will not be satisfactory. Build up a true picture of yourself. If you are unsure of where to start then describe yourself, include your age, height, weight, personality, dislikes etc etc.
Then go on to your positive aspects, but don't be biased, mention what you are uncomfortable with. On the other don't put yourself down to much- mentioning only your personal flaws. Women can detect only to well if you feel unhappy and unsure with yourself; this is a major turn off. TIP: GO WITH YOUR FIRST THOUGHTS.
Once you have completed that, take a look at these questions, answering them truthfully and accurately:
1. Do people rely on you?
2. Are you quiet or the centre of attention?
3. Are you part of a large crowd, or fond of one to ones?
4. What is your history with women like? Have you suffered because of them? Why?
5. Are you happy with you financial status? What level is it?
6. Are you bothered about religion and politics?
7. What do you see as your moral code?
8. What interests you?
9. Do you regularly take part in non-work activities? If so what?
10. Do you want to branch out career wise?
11. Who would you most like to become in a fantasy world?
12. If you had all the time in the world what would you spend time doing?
Take your time answering the above questions. It is very important that you are really answering from a true perspective- not what you think sounds right or correct. Don't worry if your first attempt is short and scrappy- you can always alter them at a later date or simply add ideas.
THINK THE IDEAL:
You, as a person must know your ideal. For example you're ideal image and women. If you workout what this is, you will focus on this, and think about these new thoughts, allowing you to concentrate on them.
If you don't- then you will write down the same old ideas, and end up with just another girlfriend- not your ideal- and certainly not of your dreams. Basically think out what you want- not what you don't want- it may seem complicated- but trust me in practise it's not!
Apply this method to all aspects of life. If you want a new job, then think about getting a new job- it's a great starting point in achieving your goals.
EXPLORE PERFECTION:
Now it starts to get exciting- it is time to explore your ideal and perfect women. Go through the same process again, but this time describe her, not yourself. Be realistic, start with her physical appearance, is she blonde or a redhead? small or big?, quiet or loud?, anything you can think of, that could make a difference. Take your time, making sure you don't leave anything to chance.
Then get down to basics- what type of women would you most like to take to bed- what turns you on? Would she be leggy or curvy? The choice is totally up to you. Start by thinking about idols- do you like J-Lo's bottom or Jordan's boobs? Be honest, and don't worry no one else apart from you will see your thoughts.
Next describe what kind of personality and interests she would have- where would you meet her? what could you do together and where would you meet? Would she have to clean and do you ironing? Will she match your sex drive?
Write down anything and everything you can think of! If you think of anything later you can simply just add it- everything is relevant to what you are doing. You'd be surprised what seems irrelevant at the time- maybe come much more clearer and important later on.
Remember whatever you write is totally personal and confidential- so totally go to town- if you want a girl into bondage, WRITE IT! Don't be embarrassed!
If you are totally stuck- which I doubt! Start by applying the questions you answered to yourself- and then go from there- it's a great starting point. As time progresses, and you change so may your ideal women.
There is nothing wrong with this- in fact it's very healthy, all you need to do is keep adding bits to your initial ideas. As you go on more and more dates with women it is only natural that your ideas change.
You may even find that what you thought was you perfect partner simply isn't. The key is to move on and keep thinking about what you do want, not what you don't. Everything you embark on is a learning experience- whether the outcome is good or bad- make sure you take away the positives.
CHECKPOINT: HAVE YOU WRITTEN YOUR ANSWERS YET? IF NOT, DO SO NOW!
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